...you'll find peace and contentment much sooner.
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When you stop trying to control all external variables, things get a lot easier for you.
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Why worry about, or try to control, things you cannot 100% control - it doesnāt make senseā¦
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It just leads to frustration, anger, and potentially relapse.
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Instead, control what you know you can control 100%.
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And the only thing you have 100% control over, is your inner-worldā¦
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> Your thoughts and feelingsā¦
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> How you react to external stimuliā¦
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> What you allow into your inner-world.
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When you nail that way of thinking...
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Life becomes a lot easierā¦
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And so does sobriety.
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You stop caring so much about whatās going on around youā¦
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And start caring more about whatās going on internally.
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That in-turn makes you a more compassionate, loving, easy going human being.
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And that makes you much nicer to be around.
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The most important people in your life will also noticeā¦
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> Partners
> Children
>Friends
> Parents
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And they may reciprocate what you projectā¦
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Thatās not guaranteed of courseā¦
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But remember - you can only control you and your inner-world.
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In time, theyāll come around...
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If youāre CONSISTENT with this new way of living.
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How are you living right now?
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Constantly trying to change the external?
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Or focusing inward on what you actually have 100% control over?
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If you want some guidance in that areaā¦
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You know where I am.
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